Look, I'm like, not a priest or whatever, and I'd probably be a pretty lame one. But I've totally had a long time to think about this, you know? And like... you know, now that I've been with someone...
I think the thing is, like, no matter what you say about it, even though it feels good and is fun, you kinda give up something of yourself, and if it's to someone you love and can trust and want to stay with, there's nothing wrong with that. If it's not... I think that hurts people. I've totally seen it hurt people, and I think that's why we think it's bad.
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Date: 2011-04-04 03:00 am (UTC)Look, I'm like, not a priest or whatever, and I'd probably be a pretty lame one. But I've totally had a long time to think about this, you know? And like... you know, now that I've been with someone...
I think the thing is, like, no matter what you say about it, even though it feels good and is fun, you kinda give up something of yourself, and if it's to someone you love and can trust and want to stay with, there's nothing wrong with that. If it's not... I think that hurts people. I've totally seen it hurt people, and I think that's why we think it's bad.